Resources for Parents
What You Should Know
What is the Lone Soldiers Program?
Nefesh B'Nefesh-FIDF Lone Soldiers Program is a nonprofit organization, not part of the IDF. We advocate for Lone Soldiers, answer questions, and offer guidance before, during, and after their service. We're here for parents too, with our own community and events.
IDF Lone Soldier Department
IDF Lone Soldier Department (Merkaz HaBodedim) is the IDF's own department for Lone Soldiers — a resource for soldiers and parents from before the draft through release. If something isn't being resolved through your child's Mashakit Tash (welfare soldier), Merkaz HaBodedim is the next step.
Your Child's Welfare Officer
Every Lone Soldier has a Mashakit Tash — a welfare soldier in their base or unit who handles day-to-day questions about rights, benefits, and leave. This is usually the first person your child should go to.
Planning a Visit to Israel
Parents can visit during their child's service, and Lone Soldiers can travel home. Subsidized flights and vacation days make it possible for your child to visit you, and special leave lets you visit them in Israel. Reach out to our Parents Coordinator to help plan around your child's schedule.
Stay Informed and Connected
Guides & Resources
Your hub for guides, benefits information, and answers to common questions about Lone Soldier service.
Monthly Newsletter
Every month, get the latest on LSP events, program updates, and Lone Soldiers' rights and benefits review, in English.
LSP Resilience Center
Mental health and emotional support for post-army Olim Lone Soldiers returning to civilian life, offered jointly by NBN-FIDF Lone Soldiers Program and Sheba Medical Center.
Operation Hug
Subsidized flight tickets for one parent to visit an active-duty soldier currently serving in combat, with priority given to select military ceremonies.
Parent Gatherings in Israel
Social and informational in-person meetups for parents visiting Israel to connect with other Lone Soldier families, meet the LSP team, and share experiences.
Webinars & Zoom Sessions
Online sessions covering a wide range of topics hosted regularly for parents.
Stay in the Loop
A monthly look at event highlights, program updates, and information on rights and benefits.
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Common Questions
Who is a Lone Soldier?
A Lone Soldier is an IDF soldier without immediate family living in Israel. This includes Olim, Mahal volunteers, and Israelis whose immediate family lives abroad.
Is Nefesh B'Nefesh-FIDF part of the Israeli army?
No. NBN-FIDF is not part of the IDF and does not recruit soldiers. We support Lone Soldiers who are already serving, offering guidance, benefits information, and a personal advisor.
How can I stay in touch with my child during service?
Phone calls and messaging apps are usually available. Contact may be limited during training or field exercises — this is a normal part of army life.
Can I visit my child during their service?
Many parents do. Subsidized flights, such as through Operation Hug, and family visit days can make a trip possible. Reach out to our Parents Coordinator to plan around your child’s schedule.
How to Reach Us
US Parent Hotline
For parents abroad, available during Israeli business hours
Sun–Thu 9:00–17:00
Emergency Hotline
Available 24/7 within Israel for urgent situations
Parents Coordinator by WhatsApp
Message Karen directly for questions or updates.
Parents Coordinator by email
Questions about events, benefits, or anything else.